Good day gistmeloversblog, top of the day to you all.
This topic is basically for the divorce men out there that are out of their marriage and living separately from their Ex wife and kids.
Attimes divorce can be a very devastating experience that the pains felt don’t go easily especially if you are a responsible man that put in your best effort in the marriage to make things work but eventually went south.
It’s even more heartbreaking if you caught your ex wife cheating and having extra marital affairs when you know as a man you don’t deserve such betrayal, it could easily break you as a man.
Now my bone of contention is, divorce men out there, how do you deal with the fact that you are obligated to pay child support and care and also foot school fees and medical of the kids that came out of the union despite the family being broken.
How do you cope with this when the custody of the kids are with your ex wife and knowing she was the one that betrayed you in the marriage by cheating on you, will you be comfortable still sending her money for your kids upkeep and also paying their school despite the fact they don’t live under your roof.
How do you men deal with this cos attimes, it can be so discouraging knowing fully well what led to the union breakup. Presently am separated from my ex wife on the count of infidelity, my two kids have been with her ever since and attimes anytime I think about the hurt and betrayal, I will want to end any sort of provision for the kids but because am a very responsible man that wants the best for my kids, it’s difficult to just look away.
Attimes my thoughts could be like in as much the kids are staying with her, I am on the loosing side and my effort providing for the kids outside my jurisdiction might look like a wasted efforts being that the kids are with her 247 and she can easily still the glory by making the kids believe she is the one doing the provision.
Pls divorce and separated men, how do you go through this turmoil and ways to navigate through to be sure you are on the right track.
